How have you trained people to treat you?
"We teach people how to treat us by what we will accept from them!"
Thanks for the reminder Dr. Kim Ventus-Darks.
It may be time to re-train people, even some in your circle. Better yet, how do you treat yourself? See your value and so will others.
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ReplyDeleteHow true, when we are in familiar relationships with others, friendships, kinships, courtships, and we fail to first love, respect, and cherish who GOD has created us to be, we teach and train others to do the same. They walk on us, over us and if possible right through us, without a shred of guilt or remorse.
ReplyDeleteMost times they don't even realize the things they do hurt us. Truth be told, they are not the true culprit, no matter how hurt, angry, debased, or embarrassed they have caused us to feel, we are truly to blame. From the onset, we teach folks how to treat us, and then we become upset, when they treat us as we treat ourselves. The only way to change this behavior is to first change our selves. Once we say enough is enough and mean it, that individual will either change with the tide, or sail on out your life. ©2011 DreamNWord.com Kim Daniel